30대가 되고 나서야 알게 된 ‘사람 거르는 기준’
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Mingarden suggests asking whether you would recommend the person to someone you love, such as your daughter, when you feel uncertain about a romantic partner or friend. This perspective can make problematic behavior and the appropriate distance in a relationship clearer. She emphasizes that you do not have to cut everyone off, but you should decide where each person belongs in your life.
- Ask whether you would recommend them to your daughter
- Apply the same standard to dating and friendship
- Set boundaries instead of automatically cutting people off
- Be mindful of how close relationships influence you











